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Message from Charlie
June 23, 2022 12:45 PM
Happy Birthday mom. Its 2022 and we're all still around. Your sister could be better, but she's in good hands- I think she'll be alright. Its that time of year again tho. Gaslight Theater- I really wish I would have taken you up on it sooner. I always figured there was more time, even that last day. I was so sure there was more time. I miss you mom. Not a one of us don't.
I'm working elsewhere now. Sitel moved out of state. Got work at a nearby Dollar General. A day doesn't go by when I find something you might like or might make into something. Love you mom, thinking about you.
I'm working elsewhere now. Sitel moved out of state. Got work at a nearby Dollar General. A day doesn't go by when I find something you might like or might make into something. Love you mom, thinking about you.
Message from Charlie
May 8, 2022 5:17 PM
Seven years later. Where did the time go? I'm 30 this year. Kinda feels like it. Getting sore 'n all. Its another mother's day with out you around. I never really paid much attention to holidays, they were just around. Only things that really felt like holidays were the stuff the family got together on- Well those and Halloween. Though I think we had a few Halloween Parties, but more often I remember going out for Halloween to, like, a haunted house or something.
Anyway, I just wanted to say happy mother's day again this year. Miss the hell out of your Mom. Love you.
Anyway, I just wanted to say happy mother's day again this year. Miss the hell out of your Mom. Love you.
Message from Dale Cole
October 19, 2020 7:27 PM
I miss you mom... its never easy, sometimes I forget for a moment, like when I see a tea cup I know you would love or just during the day I get the urge to hear your voice. Charlie is well, still with Joe and I, don't think I ever want to be away from him. Its good he's around to talk to. Joe is also well, he takes good care of me, I know you would be happy, he really is the best thing to ever happen to me. Currently we are out on the coast spending a week with Joe's family. You'll get along so well with them you and Alice would get along well I think, she reminds me alot of you. Anyway, I'll let ya go for now Mom, love and miss you as always
Message from Charlie
May 8, 2016 6:27 PM
Hay mom, its me again. Moved in with Dale and Joe. Getting thing a around and all. Got work and am trying to get back on track. First mother's day without you around.. It's a bit rough for Dale and I. I just wanted to wish you a happy mother's day mom. Love you.
Message from Shelby
November 18, 2021 5:49 PM
Hey I randomly looked up Carla’s obituary & I saw this I just want to say I’m happy you are with Joe & Dale. I hope all is well & continue to do so for all of you.
Message from Cindy (mALX)
May 7, 2016 8:02 PM
My sincerest condolences and deepest sympathy to you and your family, Charlie. I am so very sorry for your loss, and so glad you have a loving family to help you through this. Time doesn't heal everything, but the love of a family does. I'm glad you have that to get you through this. So glad Dale has opened his home up and made room for you there, too.
Message from Charlie J. C.
January 27, 2016 12:41 PM
Hey Mom,
I really should have thought to do this sooner really. Sorry about that. I'd actually tried to write something here before we left to take care of your ceremony. I just couldn't find the words, you know? I mean, even now as I write this I'm not positive I'll even submit it. I should write all this down and take it to your spot. I should, but then they put you all the way out in Colorado, didn't they? Hell of a trip. And now I'm rambling, sorry. Happy New Year by the way, I should have done this then too. You'll be happy to know me and Dale are spending time together by the way. I spent New Years with him, I'm still down with him right now actually. All this January and I think a little into next month on account of a free dental deal the clinic out here is doing. I got your teeth after all, ehe. I want to go up to you this June. For you birthday I mean. I wish we could have spent last June together. Really together, you out of the hospital and all. I really wanted to finally go to the theater with you. See a play, something. A month late, right? Dale and I are getting along great though. It's been really nice seeing him after all these year. And you were right, like everyone probably figured, we're pretty much exact despite the fourteen year and distance. I'm going to submit this now, Mom. I miss you, I miss you so much. I mean I can't THINK about you without choking up. I doubt it'll get better, sometimes I catch myself forgetting it. Like it wasn't real, but then I remember. And like I said at the site, you're never really gone if I remember you. I just wish I had more times to remember. I'll see you when I can, mom.
Love,
Your Charlie
I really should have thought to do this sooner really. Sorry about that. I'd actually tried to write something here before we left to take care of your ceremony. I just couldn't find the words, you know? I mean, even now as I write this I'm not positive I'll even submit it. I should write all this down and take it to your spot. I should, but then they put you all the way out in Colorado, didn't they? Hell of a trip. And now I'm rambling, sorry. Happy New Year by the way, I should have done this then too. You'll be happy to know me and Dale are spending time together by the way. I spent New Years with him, I'm still down with him right now actually. All this January and I think a little into next month on account of a free dental deal the clinic out here is doing. I got your teeth after all, ehe. I want to go up to you this June. For you birthday I mean. I wish we could have spent last June together. Really together, you out of the hospital and all. I really wanted to finally go to the theater with you. See a play, something. A month late, right? Dale and I are getting along great though. It's been really nice seeing him after all these year. And you were right, like everyone probably figured, we're pretty much exact despite the fourteen year and distance. I'm going to submit this now, Mom. I miss you, I miss you so much. I mean I can't THINK about you without choking up. I doubt it'll get better, sometimes I catch myself forgetting it. Like it wasn't real, but then I remember. And like I said at the site, you're never really gone if I remember you. I just wish I had more times to remember. I'll see you when I can, mom.
Love,
Your Charlie
Message from Elsie Dunn
June 8, 2015 10:20 AM
Please know that our hearts are breaking for all of Carla's family. Blessings are here as well God is so good and Heaven is pain free, may Carla rest in peace.. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you....Our special love from Elsie Dunn, Flossie and Harry Spitzer and Flora Blake...
Message from Joy Carol
June 7, 2015 3:27 PM
We follow a pathway that has no end
as we travel through life day by day.
Together with those who are dear to our hearts
and are there by our side, come what may
But sometimes a loved one must travel ahead
for reasons that aren't always clear.
And we're left behind to continue along,
missing one who is no longer here.
And while it may seem that the pathway has stopped,
it merely has rounded a bend,
And our loved one goes on to a much brighter place
down the pathway that has no end. love you guys, if you need anything call.
Going to miss talking with our little Firefly....she always did it with everything with great passion.
as we travel through life day by day.
Together with those who are dear to our hearts
and are there by our side, come what may
But sometimes a loved one must travel ahead
for reasons that aren't always clear.
And we're left behind to continue along,
missing one who is no longer here.
And while it may seem that the pathway has stopped,
it merely has rounded a bend,
And our loved one goes on to a much brighter place
down the pathway that has no end. love you guys, if you need anything call.
Going to miss talking with our little Firefly....she always did it with everything with great passion.
Message from Betty Kliewer
June 2, 2015 11:01 PM
Carla was such a wonderful person and friend. I worked with her at Vance Login and she was a very hard worker and always had a smile. I pray for God's peace on all her family.
Message from Angela Bobb
May 26, 2015 1:18 PM
I was sadden upon hearing that Carla had left this life to enter into eternity. I met Carla years ago when she started working at Vance AFB, she and I worked together for the years she worked there. She was such a pleasure to work with. I believe that she was tired of being sick and her heavenly father said it was time for her to come home. I believe in my heart that she knew Jesus because we would talk about him. She has crossed over. To her family, her son whom I know she loved dearly because she talked about him often, and to close friends, Carla is at peace now, and my condolence to you all. God Bless
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